Life ~ Death ~ Life

In February, I chose to euthanize my cat "Taboo" of 14 1/2 years. She had arthritis and developed urinary issues. We tried medication and isolation, but nothing seemed to help. We ran tests to figure out the entire nature of her problems, but never were completely clear what all she was experiencing.

I held her in my arms as she died. It's a strange feeling to "plan" death. I wondered what God was thinking. After wanting a cat my whole life, I picked her up one Wednesday in Sept. l993 from the Humane Society to give her a good life. And then, nearly 15 years later, I took her on a Wednesday to the vet to give her a good death.

Life is full of choices. Some are easy. Some are hard. I choose to enjoy life, to cherish it, to bask in it. Someday I will "die" and I believe, move on to another form of life. The children asked, "Will Taboo go to heaven?" I believe she is there now, perhaps running around with our friends' and families' animals that have gone before her.

For the Christian world, this is the season of Easter...we remember the life, ministry, death, and resurrection of Jesus Christ. We are given the hope of life beyond our life on earth as we know it. We are given the relief of forgiveness for our sins. I am thankful for this gift. I am thankful for the cycle of Life ~ Death ~ Life. I am blessed in so many ways.

The team at the veterinary clinic sent a card about a week following Taboo's death. It said, "When a beloved cat must leave us . . . it is only to sit in God's lap." Amen.

Is Charlie Brown in the House?

Did you notice how a month ago I said, "Look for my 'Jump Start Your Year' Coaching Program information coming soon?" Have you noticed nearly a week of February is now gone? It's been what I like to call a "Charlie Brown Month."

I bet you can relate to this....you get an idea in your mind...even visualize it complete...you set the plan in motion...and then...oops...delay #1...ah oh...delay #2...whoops...delay #3...another glitch, another snag ~ oh my ~ was this NOT meant to be? FRUSTRATION!!!

So, I trusted the process that was going nowhere fast (and slow) and walked away from the project FOR NOW. I realized I went in strong in my mind, but not prepared with the tools. You see, I am a coach/writer/speaker/counselor now also learning how to be an online entrepreneur. The technological world is a foreign place for me, yet I am working hard to master those skills and maximize this great tool to expand my business ~ THE INTERNET! I have new software, new programs, etc. and MUCH to grasp. I am getting there, slowly. I am learning more about patience in life, AGAIN.

I will keep you informed as things develop. I want to know from you what you want from The Inspiration Center as well. You can contact me directly at info@askcindywhitmer.com. I'd love to hear from you!

Until next time ~ blessings to you and yours!

2008 ~ Your Best Year Yet?

Two years ago at this time, we were announcing to our children that we were completely changing their lives, moving to a different state, and leaving behind what they had always known. I can connect with the pain of that time easily with just a moment of thought. Transitions are never easy for anyone. However, when we realize a change is needed and possible, we must trust that what will come on the other side of the pain or loss is something greater, more beautiful, more powerful for our lives.

A new year is upon us . . . time to reevaluate what's most important to us and reinvent our lives in whatever ways will lead us to our most authentic selves. Time to rethink our businesses, our relationships, our spirituality, our choices. Time to begin again, anew.

Look for a new group coaching program I have created called, "Jump Start Your Year," (details coming soon!) or if you prefer one-on-one coaching, several packages are also available. Let's make 2008 your best year yet! I look forward to the journey with you ~